A New Year; A New You
It's a new year. As I write this, there are 363 days and fourteen hours or so left until January 1, 2018. If you are like me, this moment at the onset of a new year feels like a clean slate, a new beginning--a chance to be better than I was in the previous year. What are you going to do with this incredible gift of a clean slate? Some of us simply find ourselves frozen in this pregnant moment. We think back on all of the mistakes we've made, the challenging circumstances, the obstacles placed before us, and we determine that the coming year is just going to bring more of the same. Some of us can't find the strength to let go of our mistakes, and secretly believe we are defined by the things we've done and left undone. Poet Dobby Gibson captures this perfectly when he writes, "When you're sorry for what you did, you're usually sorry for what you didn't." That resonates with me so deeply. Then there are those of us who kn...