Forgiving As You Have Been Forgiven
Years ago, I had a conflict with a church member and youth group volunteer who was spreading lies about me both in the church and in our community. When the truth came out, and she knew that she had been exposed, she never returned to the church. For several months, I did my best to try to arrange meetings, sent her emails, called and left voice messages on her phone and even sent her a written letter pleading with her to speak with me so we could be reconciled. She never responded. I eventually grew angry at her and stayed angry for a long time. She'd done a lot of damage to my ministry and had done her best to divide our church. Further, because of her unwillingness to work it out, the bad feelings between us simply festered. I don't remember when exactly, but I eventually found myself feeling sorry for her. Because of her shame over being caught in a lie, she'd lost her church family, her community suppor...