Carrying By The Right Handle
In my years of being in and around churches, I've noticed that those of us who call ourselves Christians will say the darndest things. For example, some of us have the bad habit of waxing all poetic when we pray in public--using flowery, archaic language like "Lord we thank thee for this thine abundant bounty, which thou hast provided for us--in thy mercy." Translation: "Dear God, thank you for this food." Others of us love to quote Bible verses for every occasion... Drive-thru Attendant: "Would you like fries with that burger, ma'am?" Christian-y Person: "'Man does not live by bread alone, missy!'" But perhaps the most double-edged thing I have heard Christians say is this: "I'm just going to 'speak the truth in love' to you now." Typically, this phrase proceeds a criticism, nasty comment or a rebuke of some kind that is about as far from loving as you can get. In fact, ...