Faith Big Enough For Questions - Day Three: "Where Were You?"
“There is a crack in everything. That's how the light gets in.” — Leonard Cohen “Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died.” — John 11:21 Martha doesn't greet Jesus politely. She confronts him. Her brother Lazarus is dead. And Jesus could have prevented it. At least Martha believes he could have. “Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died.” In other words: Where were you? I suspect many of us have prayed some version of that prayer. Where were you when the diagnosis came? Where were you when my marriage fell apart? Where were you when my child was hurting? Where were you when I begged you to help? Where were you when the person I loved died? Where were you, God? Jesus' response to Martha is striking. He doesn't shame her. He doesn't say, “You shouldn't talk to me like that.” He doesn't correct her theology before acknowledging her pain. He stays. He steps into the grief with her. Later, when Mary comes to Jesus and says ex...