Embracing Joy As A Spiritual Practice




Last Sunday night, I was invited by friends to attend a 50th anniversary screening of Monty Python and the Holy Grail, which also featured an appearance by John Cleese, one of the original members of the comedy troupe.  

The truth is, I haven't had a ton of fun lately.  I work a lot. I live alone with my cat, and I work a lot.  Don't get me wrong, I love my job and have a lot of fun doing it, but I haven't been getting out much lately to do things that aren't work-related.  

Also, I haven't sold my house in a year, which has its own level of buzzkill.  

Which was why last Sunday night was so meaningful to me.  I laughed, quoted a bunch of lines from the movie as it played, and sat in awe as I had the chance to listen to one of my lifelong heroes talk and answer questions. 

It was pure joy.  

When you aren't accustomed to feeling pure joy and then experience it, it's almost overwhelming.  It also got me thinking.  Why is it so hard for us to find and experience joy sometimes?  

Joy can feel elusive when life is heavy. Hardship, grief, and stress have a way of narrowing our vision until we forget what it feels like to delight in God’s presence. 

Yet Scripture reminds us that joy is not merely a fleeting feeling—it is a fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22) and a strength that sustains us. Nehemiah proclaimed to a weary people, “The joy of the Lord is your strength” (Nehemiah 8:10).

Author Jaqui Lewis puts it this way: 

“Joy is an essential need for the thriving of the human spirit. Without it, we are diminished and too often left with the festering of our wounds, resentments, and fears. Joy is that feeling of well-being, pleasure, and happiness that accompanies us as we move through life. It alters the way we see the world, its people, and ourselves.” 

Her words remind us that joy is not optional—it is essential. Without it, we risk living out of wounds and fears instead of hope and love.

Practicing joy does not mean ignoring pain; instead, it means embracing it with a deeper understanding. 

Even the psalmist cried out, “Weeping may stay for the night, but rejoicing comes in the morning” (Psalm 30:5). Joy is not about pretending everything is fine; it is about opening ourselves to God’s presence in every moment, trusting that grace and beauty can be found even in struggle. 

Jesus himself taught his disciples, “I have told you this so that my joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete” (John 15:11).

When we embrace joy as a spiritual discipline—something to return to daily in prayer, gratitude, laughter, music, or simply noticing the good around us—we find that it reshapes us. It alters how we see the world, others, and ourselves, just as Lewis describes. 

Joy becomes a wellspring of resilience, enabling us to endure trials and continue to hold onto hope.

Make joy your practice. Cultivate it as intentionally as you do prayer or Scripture reading. In doing so, you will find a strength that allows you to withstand life’s challenges with grace and hope.

Prayer

Gracious God,
Teach me to embrace joy as Your gift and my strength. When life feels heavy, remind me of Your presence and goodness. Help me to see glimpses of beauty even in hard times, and let joy rise within me as a daily practice of faith. Amen.

Reflection Questions

  1. When have you experienced joy even in the middle of a difficult season?

  2. What daily practices help you open your heart to God’s joy?

  3. How might joy reshape the way you see others and yourself this week?


Comments

Popular posts from this blog

Rich Mullins' Life & Legacy

Rapha & Yada - "Be Still & Know": Reimagined

The Lord Needs It: Lessons From A Donkey